It has been quite some time that I would let other people’s negativity affect me. I was never this way, always been very sensitive and perceptive with other people’s vibrations but I ended up somehow being absorbed and its hard to get out of it by myself at times. It also even has turned me more negative, I rarely meditate now, I always feel tired and see others’ faults more than their goodness. There is less tolerance, it feels impossible to practice meta-compassion . Is it possible with little by little small habits to come back again? It feels like a light fades away and suddenly you are surrounded of darkness and sadness. Any suggestions?
C
ompassion. Sometimes the best way out of being in a negative situation is to change your perspective so even when you’re feeling empathetically on overload you have to change your vibrational state. Act from compassion instead of hateAct from Love instead of fear
Listen instead of talk or think over them.
I live in a 5 person household there is always friction building between different views but i’m learning the high road of compassion and positivity is truly the best way to view people. It’s all perspective. You can look out the window and see heaven on earth by seeing the beauty in others and in nature or you can look out and see hatred, negativity, judgment, cruelty, etc. I feel more humbled in a sense the more i open myself to listening, even when people criticize me in any shape or form i try to see it from a higher perspective. You can’t fight fire with fire, it just creates more fire but what if you decide to become water instead of fueling the argument?
So truthfully there is no need to battle or fight with negativity, we can all see that we have both light and dark within us but it honestly comes down to listening to others. Truly listening, looking them in the eyes, hearing their frequency channel and tuning into their energy, THAT is where true connection lives and breathes, the more you start listening instead of “seeing” the more you will start hearing people’s true souls. I find that really enchanting, the ability to listen to eachother rather than talk over people. Isn’t that what everyone wants deep down to be heard? why do we post statuses and write on all this social media, isn’t it merely a way to be seen and heard?
I guess over time i’ve just learned that to truly see the experience, you have to see both sides and if we don’t see the two way street how do we even get across in the first place. It comes from a place in the heart.
The true magic of overcoming negativity is being putting yourself in the eyes of the people around you. Everyday someone has a story, maybe it’s just the right one you need to share and hear to develop your own story. And we weave our stories together through the veil of synchroncity that connects to the next experience and the infinite realm of memories interconnects us all through the music of listening to other’s frequencies. It’s all within the listening. It’s in music, it’s in your voice. You can even hear it now.
Om
love <3
