I love and appreciate your blog very much. It has helped me tremendously! Thank you!
I don’t know if you can help me but thought you might be able to give me some guidance.
I know with everything that is going on astrologically I am definitely working through letting go of alot old stories, emotions, some of it being karmic, perhaps?!
I have come to realize that I have this intense guilt I carry that is linked to my family but mostly my parents. I don’t quite understand it but I know it is one of the things I must let go of. I am in a place in my life where I see how that is preventing me from happiness, from fulfilling my life path/purpose, from finding love and abundance on all levels.
I am struggling currently and I think this guilt holds the key but not sure where it stems from, why I feel the way I do and how to heal it!
What are your thoughts?
Much love and light,
Thank you for such kind words <3
This guilt you carry could be stemmed for a lot of different things, especially if it is karmic it could be something that happened in your childhood that never got released. It could also be something current about your parents relationship with you, how you see them or how you feel about a situation involving them. I cannot pin this because this is a personal question. This has to come from within you. Maybe it’s a guilt that has to deal with pleasing them or making them happy? Regardless what it is that is holding you back you have to remember this is your life, not theirs and you have to be free t make your own choices and find happiness again. Sometimes i feel like parents can hold us back from our true potential especially if they guard our opinions and objectives of how we see the world. I’ve been having this conversation with Adam a lot too because since i’ve become a Mother i have to start thinking about these things, being a parent is a hard job you’re not only helping them learn to walk and talk but you’re also their ultimate teacher and guidance of how they see the world around them. I think as we get older we sometimes take that for granted as we can’t relate to our parents as much.
However if you look at this from both perspectives, you shouldn’t have to feel guilty because this is your life, your choices, your opinions, etc. You need to be true to you and release this guilt that keeps you full of unnecessary burdens towards your parents. It could be a parent issue as well, i know with my parents they seems to be a bit overprotective which caused me to rebel more as a teenager because they tried to control my every opinion and action. It seems like parents sometimes don’t give us that room to breathe and acknowledge our own personal truth. However if they don’t give us the space how are we supposed to grow? So i think this guilt could range from many things in your life, but you have to see that what it comes down to is that it’s your choices, your opinions, your direction and your truth. Being true to you is the best ticket to happiness because it shows not only are you facing yourself but your also learning to take a direction, an action of acknowledging your choices and personal strengths.
Don’t let anyone hold you back you were born to fly 🙂