Truly relationships are about love, honesty and communication. It’s not only about the love of the other person it’s also about loving yourself to attract that love back into your life. So if we are still soul searching we are not being true to ourselves. Relationships are a two way street, it’s about self love and giving that love back in return, flow and energy. If there is not the flow of energy, it means there is a block from something that is holding you back. You need to find out for yourself by listening to your heart and communicating with him about these issues.
I cannot tell you the answer to this, it’s your choice and yours alone. I hope this at least helps you ponder about things differently
much love and healing <3