Okay, I have several number of abilities, (there considered gifts in this world, but I dont like that term) and some times it does affect my friendships and relationships with other people, and family members. I’m a medium, and a empath, being a empath tends to do away with the relationships. I feel what people feel and sometimes I try very hard not contribute to the feeling, or act like how they are feeling at the moment. what can I do about this because I’am working bettering my relationships.
Being an empath can be very hard sometimes especially in this world where a lot of people are still very much in the 3d mindset of thinking. I think i might of wrote something similar before but i would work on training your mind to differentiate between their thoughts and yours that way you can become consciously aware of your mind’s projection of thoughts. I know it’s ridiculously hard to do this though, it’s like I almost feel like a human filter sometimes where my thoughts will merge with say my coworkers thoughts and i have to bit my tongue before i accidentally say what they’re feeling/thinking before they do! It’s definitely hard to get used to at first.
the easiest way to do this is literally and i know it sounds silly but have mental conversations with yourself. Am i feeling this thought or are they feeling this thought, Why am i feeling this way? I don’t think this is myself? etc. it can be tedious but it will immensely help.
Concerning relationships this is actually a beautiful thing because it will teach you how to connect to others more deeply. It will increase intimacy and empathy within your friendships. Everything happens for a reason, i’m sure there’s a direct cause as to why you’re feeling all of their thoughts, maybe you’re also a healer too? And you’re supposed to help connect to these people through conversation or energy exchange as a divine healing light.
I mean the worse thing you can do in this situation is try to ignore it and try to shut it off because the universe gave you these abilities for a divine purpose. Granted we don’t always know what it is yet or we feel like it’s a burden rather than a gift, everything has a reason for it’s output. So next time this happens, really dig deep into these feelings, learn to find which ones are yours and theirs and ask yourself what would be a great way that i could use this information to help others so that i can also help myself through this channeling of information being given to me?
I hope it helps
much love <3